Ladies if you have a good man, one who atleast: • Is There for you • Cares for you (Takes you out or pays your bills or is concerned with where you are) • Introduces you as his girlfriend • Tells you, you are beautiful • Calls you, makes you smile or blush • Tolerates your bad monthly days • Holds your hand • Doesn’t hit you • Kisses you passionately • Cares for your parents or children Then stop treating him like a project. Stop being a female dog* and treating him like beastly stray dog. If you have a good man: • Don’t compete to be the man, you are a woman, be one. • You don’t have to be always right, sometimes let him win • It is not always your way, sometimes he wants to do things for him, let him do them • You don’t have to always prove he is wrong and drag on a fault, sometimes let it go • If he is sorry at times you don’t have to remind him how far he fell or how deeply he hurt you • Sometimes there is nothing is deeper from his explanation. Don’t be paranoid, it will kill you • If he is trying to make amends stop moving away and making it harder than climbing Mt. Everest • If he is giving you one thing in entirety and half of the other, stop focusing on the half and focus on the full • If he makes you mad, don’t talk to him like a child, make him understand, if you have to raise your voice don’t! Write it on paper • If he takes you out and makes you feel good (Pays your bill, introduces you as his girlfriend, gives you attention) then do not make his time out hell by bringing drama, it can wait till you are home • It’s ok to be mad, just don’t be stupid mad • It’s ok to be hurt but it doesn’t mean revenge. The sting of an onion wasn’t cured by pouring salt into the eye or was it? Finally, when you have had it, •Walk away Until he puts his hand on you or threatens you, do not show the devil in you by treating the man like a mobile phone continually trying to make his life hell by blowing mistakes into world stopping wars. All I am saying is ladies with good men, they don’t come easy, you aren’t entitled to a good man, give him a break, treat him right, love on him, forgive him Life doesn’t always let you have something you don’t deserve for too long. He could easily be whisked off and you will walk on bitter saying how bad a man he was. While he was just a good man forced to being a bad one. Who says the next one you get will be half as good. And if you break up, where is the single lot of us supposed to get good men, if those who leave you have the worst perception of women? "
Posted on: Wed, 10 Jul 2013 07:20:55 +0000
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