Let me ask you a question. How do you make someone want something? Interesting question, isn’t it? Do you offer it to them? Do you tell them how great it is? Do you try to convince them first? How do you do it? You might think that diamonds and gold are precious and expensive because they’re ‘beautiful’, but in fact their value comes from their scarcity… What originally made them interesting, what originally made them beautiful, and what originally made people WANT them was that there was nothing else like them. Coal and diamonds are both made of carbon, but the former is cheap and latter is expensive because one is harder to find than the other. Of course, most guys immediately telegraph to a woman that they would crawl naked over a mile of thumbtacks just to lick her boots… which tells the woman that they’re not rare at all. To keep yourself valued and attractive, keep yourself rare. What’s most “precious” to us is what we both value and think is rare… and therefore think that it might not always be available. And, interestingly enough, we humans don’t seem to become more attracted to what we desired once we actually get it. In fact, we become less attracted. Before we get something we want, it is going to make us better than we are now so we’re attracted to it. After we have it, it becomes a part of us and no longer better than us. We get used to it and don’t value it as much—unless something goes wrong. Getting KILLS wanting. In fact, we are MORE attracted to the wants that come closer and closer, so close we can almost smell them… but somehow stay just out of our reach. This concept takes form in a lot of practical ways. If you want to create attraction inside of a woman, you have to get used to the idea of never being tamed, caught, “gotten”, or owned. This entire concept requires that you do things exactly opposite of what your emotions may tell you. You may be having a great conversation on the telephone and every fiber of your being wants to keep talking, but to increase the attraction you need to hang up and leave her on a high note, wanting more. This can be tough, but it’s necessary.
Posted on: Sun, 30 Jun 2013 05:14:19 +0000
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