Lets ask some questions first. Who are you? What is your primary objective? What are you about? Who am I? What is my primary objective? What am I about? Or: Dont let those emotions get you all hot and bothered yet. When the feelings of lust or romance come, whether legitimate or not, and they will, we can back up and ask some important questions. We can pause to think before we react. In the midst of seemingly overpowering butterflies, we can sit down to be thoughtful over our motives and momentum. I cant simply tell you how to do relationships. I want us to talk about why. We can ask even more specifically: Why do I want to be in a relationship? Why this person? Where did I learn my idea of relationships from? Am I taking my cue from culture? Where are these feelings coming from? Are they based in a mature understanding of relationships or a derivative pseudo-romance from some movies I watched? What will happen if I follow through with this? Am I even ready for anything like this? What are my motives? Am I longing for this because Im afraid of being alone? Because I dislike being single? Or because this person is cute in the face?
Posted on: Sat, 17 Jan 2015 04:20:29 +0000
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