Looking for that guy? Here are some tips from Patriach George They are usually not the typical hot super fine well to do type. They are the guys who fear losing you. Most often the mistake ladies do is that you go for guys you are crazy about. Not the reverse. And at other times we rather give in to hawkish guys who put pressure on you with only one end.. .to bed you. The trick is that guy who knows he is is below you and does not make a fuss about it. He is not poor, proud and a domineering pauper. No. He is the kind who genuinely loves you to bits. Be willing to do anything for you, go any length for you. Most often they are not your typical hunks and you fear showing him off cus your girls will be like seriously? This guy? Naaah. So you listen to your girls, feed your own fears and all that. And go for the one every girl is chasing. The one who is hot and knows he will be on the shelf for a long time so you can sod off if you cant stand his demands....some other chic will come along. The annoying thing about such guys with the above characteristics is their insecurity. They are the type who get emotional when you dont answer their calls. Call you to ask where are you, who is talking in the background....They sort of stalk you. It can be frustrating and annoying. But look at it this way.... It is not a trust issue...It is his fear that a better guy may take you. I remember when I was single, I used to visit this lady. Other boys were visiting her too. Talk of Mercedes, Beamer and the likes. There was this guy who was crazy about her. But anytime he visited and and saw the kind of guys around the lady he got scared. So one day he gathered the vim and asked the lady if there was a future between them. The lady was pleasantly surprised. She told me and I told her to calm him down. Assure him constantly. Let him know she has company even before the guy shows up if she knew he would come visit. Introduce all his male friends to him and let him know their relationship. Let all guys who are likely to disrespect this guy know she is now dating so they must respect it. Needless to say they are now married with kids. Managing his insecurity and Not being bored by it. There are a lot of good guys out there.... but I guess when they show up.... They come like work and dirty pearls not the glitz and glam we expect so we let them go.
Posted on: Tue, 22 Apr 2014 11:50:07 +0000
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