MATURED THINKING: This is me thinking: As women, we often sit ourselves downs and go over our list of dreams. And somewhere in that list, many of us find something that we all have in common: MOST WOMEN, IF NOT ALL, WANT TO BE MARRIED BY RICH MEN…and from my point of view there is nothing wrong with that. But then when you sit and think about it, it all depends on you. You find a rich man, he has a car or two and maybe more than that, he has a huge house on the expensive side of town, he has more than six figures in his bank account, he has businesses and shares in a few companies, he travels however he wants, wherever he wants, hangs out with his rich friends and can safely say he lacks nothing. With all these, as a girl, WHAT ARE YOU BRINGING INTO THE RELATIONSHIP? As a young woman, choose to establish yourself first so you understand the kind of lifestyle you want to enter into. A relationship shouldn’t be a business opportunity because you cannot find a job. It shouldn’t be a golden ticket just because you want an easy way out of poverty. A rich man marries you, that’s good. But what will make him stay? A lot of times you’ll find yourself turning into a slave because you want to please him. Because you want the lifestyle he lives but you can’t just have it automatically. You get to instances where you want him to stop living his life just so he can stay down with you, but he needs to keep going to secure a good future for his future family. This then, should be a thought. Learn to be independent, work towards achieving your goals, work on your dreams and build yourself. It is bad enough for a man to marry an uneducated woman without direction or dreams and wishes, how worse then does it get when the woman is irresponsible and mentally immature. Well, a lot of men want trophy wives of course, but a lot too, want their women to be their best buddies, partners in business, travel buddies, a prayer warrior and a girlfriend all at the same time. Young woman, you are beautiful, strong, smart and great. But you will never see it until you put yourself to the test. Be the kind of person you want to see in your child. A good life is not handed to you on a silver platter; you have to work for it. Maybe your rich husband will be attracted by your hard work and faith. Never let your hands be idle, never find yourself bored with nothing to do. You finished your tasks too early?? Pray for the remaining hour, boredom is a thief of good work and good thought. A rich man shouldn’t be your salvation, but he should look at you and say, ‘’Lord, thank you for your favour through my woman because she understands my ‘hustle’ and she deserves the fruits of my labour.” [I STAND TO BE CORRECTED AND FURTHER EDUCATED] #SHEILA_MMUTLE
Posted on: Sat, 11 Oct 2014 11:24:51 +0000