MY CONFESSION: I Timothy Teemal have been the abuser in a relationship. I was very young (19) and every aspect of the relationship was INTENSE and I hit not once but on two occasions (I am not making any excuses and I take full responsibility for what I did.). The second time i felt sick to my stomach and left the relationship without even saying goodbye. Over the years I have apologised for what I did and although she said she forgave me and moved on I myself was not so forgiving and not so willing to move on. To this day I still feel horrible for what I did. I never did it again in my many trysts and especially with my two very serious relationships including my marriage which ended peacefully and amicably. So why am I sharing this? Well firstly I want everyone to know I am no saint. Secondly I want those heaping praise on me for what I am doing to know that I am just as flawed as the men who did those horrible things to those women - I guess the only difference being that I used my past to guide my future. And this is where I feel my post can be most interesting. I am convinced that many men are like me - been the perpetrators of violence. For those who have learned to be better, my sincere thanks for that. But for those still involved or partaking in abuse I want to let you know you have a CHOICE. You have the capacity to CHANGE. You have the capacity to be BETTER and most importantly you have the mechanism to make that change. Firstly ADMIT to yourself what you have been or what you are and upon that platform build your new and better outlook and philosophy for your relationships. I am willing to help in this regard so feel free to contact me any time day or night - right here on fb, at synchpro@gmail or at 390-5694. LET THE HEALING BEGIN.
Posted on: Mon, 28 Apr 2014 00:43:47 +0000
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