My Daughters response to me about her not telling me she was moving to Idaho: I wanted to but your not really part of my life anymore, you dont even try to be. I do love you and always will, I just dont like the choices you make and thats why I chose not to.get hurt anymore. *********************************************************************************** Really! You really know how to hit a persons heart. Thanks a lot. I can see grandma has influenced you quite a bit. I hope you tell my grand babies that I love them. I cant take how you treat me anymore. I love you and I hope your life turns out how you want it to. You could call just as well and you dont, there are many things you could be doing but you dont. You expect me to be the one to initiate contact first all of the time. Grandma does the same thing to me. It takes two to make a relationship work and its not fair for me to be the only one putting all the effort into it and you none. You just keep telling yourself that if I had wanted a relationship then I would have kept in contact. Our relationship and the strain in it right now Im not saying its all your fault cause I am partly to blame and Im willing to admit that. When did you invite me to go out on an outing with you. When did you ever call and ask me if I would like to come to my grand babies birthday. When did you call me and invite me to thanksgiving or something. I called you for Easter so I could see you and the babies. Im a grown woman. You dont have to like my choices cause you dont have to live my life. You have made choices that I havent been so thrilled about, I didnt cut you out of my life.because I didnt approve. Talk about me not trying? I have been deprived of having you home when you ran away and lived in a trailer when you where 16. You didnt call me for months and had even blocked me from your Facebook. You deprived me of the privilege of being in the waiting room waiting for my grandchild to be born. Not just once, but twice. You deprived me of watching my daughter walk down the isle and take her vows with the man of her dreams. You didnt invite me to their 1st birthday parties. Usually a person gets an invention to come to a party. You have consistently cut me out of important events in your life and left me with basically table scrape moments. I got what was left over. I wanted to be there for you with the important things that happened in your life. I didnt get to have those moments with you cause you wouldnt include me. I had to wait on the side lines and get permission to be included. If I called and asked I would be included and only then. Why? Why not call me up and see if I wanted to come over to your house and watch the kids for you while you went out to do things. Why not call me up and say, hey mom would you like to come over Christmas morning and watch your grand kids open their presents? Why isnt it just expected that of course I would be there for that and you call me up and say see you on Christmas morning at 9 am mom, Im looking forward to it. It always seemed like spending time with me was a chore for you. You have treated me like a 2nd class citizen as if I was an embarrassment to you and you didnt want to be seen in public with me. If you wanted to inform me, then you would have. But once again I wasnt included in another important event in your life. I get scolded if I pester you too much and I get scolded cause its not enough. Why is it that it is your way or the highway.You are not my parent, I am your parent. I have never brought anything dangerous around my grand babies nor would I ever do that. I respected the life style that you wanted to have for yourself and your family. I never once interfered or questioned your parenting. I never once felt that I needed to either for that matter cause your a wonderful mother. You didnt want to use physical punishment with your children. I didnt try and discuss it with you or put out my opinion the way grandma did. I simply agreed with you and respected your wishes in how you wanted to raise your children. Yet here I am feeling scolded again.
Posted on: Mon, 08 Dec 2014 08:24:41 +0000
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