My gf is telling me shiit...guyz judge me..... This is what happened...... -she said shes ill n feeling some changes on her body..... -I took her to the doctor..,the doctor said shes 3 weeks preg... -I got excited...n went to tlk to her mom n asked to take her in with me untill she give birth...... -I took her in fulltym..gave her what ever she craved for during her pregnancy n made her feel loved than ever..... -she felt the labour pains while sleeping besides me...i took her to hospital.... -after the bby was 4 month I asked her to leave our son with my mom n go stay @her house again as she was a student n focus on her studies.... -my mom,bro n lil sis accepted n loved her...shes welcomed @any tym even if am not home..she come to see her son n sometyms sleep over with me..sometyms she stay the whole week..... -now sheve graduted n the boy is 1 yr old 3 months...she wanna move in with me fulltym permenently.... - I say No No No...am not ready for such...i only took her in bcoz of the preg.... -now she say it means i only used her to get a son..coz am staying with the boy fulltym bt i dnt want her fulltym..... -the thing is,I LoVe Her so much bt am not ready for what she wants.....I still need 3 or 4 yrs of independence b4 that kind of step... -she say am avoiding her...infact she complains a lot.....n i dnt like it... -she knows that i love her so much bt she jst act like a spoilt kid bcoz of the kind of love n treatment ive been giving to her in our 7 yrs of dating.... do u think if i dump her for putting me under presure shell find another man like me???? How cn i make her stay @her house for 2 to 3 yrs nyana mara?? I will go pay that lobola n wed her she knows.... #confused
Posted on: Mon, 12 Jan 2015 18:13:36 +0000