NOTE: This blog was heavily edited to suppress early anger. Sometimes the day brings a life lesson. I normally never think about this. I have gone though many different life obstacles, but today brought a new realization. A simple comment angered me -- three words (a pronoun, an obscenity, & a name ). Although a lie, if this accusation was about someone else, I would have followed the suggestion and engaged in the obscenity. So what made this situation different? THE PEOPLE INVOLVED! Was the person a blood relative? NO! Did the accusation physically hurt anyone? NO! Was the comment a threat to cause bodily harm? NO! So what problem did the lie create? DRAMA! Everyday the tabloids insult an entertainer. Some stories are true but many are fabricated. In show business, they claim bad news is always good news. That means if they discuss you ( good or bad ), your fame will rise. If the accusation does not legally affect you, it should be ignored. The only harm in my case was I did not speak with someone very important for several months. But eventually we started communicating again. If fate permanently did not want us talking, something worse would have occurred. Strangely, the accuser disappeared from our lives, but the drama continued. Finally, I concluded we were granting the accuser with the reward they requested. They wanted their comment blasted across Facebook ( slightly done ). They wanted to create a seperation between two people ( possible but doubtful ). Did the comment anger one or more people? YES! MISSION ACCOMPLISHED! Should the accusation have made me angry? After thinking about the situation, I should have accepted the comment as a compliment. This would have removed the accusers emotional control. In hindsight, I performed the obscenity with the accuser many times. In comparison, I was working with a 1, but was now accused of being with a 10. AWESOME!!! HER BOYFRIEND DESERVES A CONGRATULATIONS FOR OBTAINING SUCH A GREAT PERSON. ( I will get my 10 one day. ) So now, I thank the accuser. If I can be accused of being with such a great woman, then I am performing great things. One day, I might even get my dream girl. Hey I can hope right? Actually maybe I should change my dream girl from Sarah Michelle Gellar to someone easier to get. NAAAHHHHH!!!!! I feel better after writing this blog. I now realize the accusation was actually a compliment. Maybe the other person does not agree, but I am sure she can handle it. Afterall, the accusation could have been worse. It could have included Drew Carey instead of me.
Posted on: Sun, 06 Apr 2014 01:35:26 +0000
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