Not understanding why my father feels the need to call me multiple times a week after I told him Im not available during the day because I HAVE A BABY and I need to catch up on sleep whenever the baby is sleeping! Then on top of that, he consistently invites himself over to my house only to sit on my couch and blab about movies and himself. If I try to tell him how I and the baby are doing, he cuts me off and resumes talking about himself or recapping a movie for the millionth time. Or, hell listen to me for a short minute, then belittle my feelings or tell me how what I think or feel is wrong. If he misses me so much, why doesnt he just listen to me when I try to update him on how Im doing, or at least be supportive?!?! Why doesnt he get that trying to arrange a visit when you have a 5 week old is difficult at best?!?! And how can he not realize that Ive never invited him over because he always invites himself? I might invite him over once and a while, but I have never had the chance! Then he asks me to call him more... WHY would I do that when I already talk you more than anyone else?!?! My entire phone log is my dad over and over. My voicemail box is nothing but messages from him too because Im usually sleeping when he calls these days, and he always sounds like a kicked puppy when I dont answer. Or if I do answer, he tells me to rest up like it was his idea and he wasnt already disturbing my sleep. Gee, sorry dad, but Im trying to stay sane over here with a baby that has no semblance of a sleep schedule yet! Mom doesnt act like this! Sorry for the long rant. I love my father, I just wish he wasnt so damn clingy and selfish. Im trying to be a wife and a mom right now. Its not my job to be his BFF.
Posted on: Mon, 26 Jan 2015 01:01:45 +0000
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