On this day, I pay tribute to the memory of the most influential woman in my life…..my dearly departed Mom – Mrs. Rosemarie Eloise Smith. Amid the fanfare and celebration characteristic of the month of September, I find myself at a loss…a grave loss, for today, 11th September, is my Mom’s birthday. Since her passing a little over a year ago, my Mom remains constantly in my thoughts and on this day, memories abound of her: caring, compassion, advice, guidance and overall love. In all honesty, to find a more genuine and giving person would truly prove an unattainable feat. I remain forever grateful for being blessed with the gift and honour of having such a remarkable person, to have raised, groomed and guided me. She taught me so much that inevitably, I owe a debt that, despite my best efforts, could never truly be repaid. My Mom meant the world to me and because of her teachings, although I miss her beyond explanation, I rejoice in the notion that, although she is no longer physically with us, her spirit lives on. Indeed we were very close and I know that she continues to watch over Baby D and me. Each time I look in the mirror or even ponder a decision, her presence is evident. When I look at my daughter, I see the living embodiment of my Mom’s: character, values, teachings and outlook. Indeed, within many regards Mom endures. My Mom used to always say, “Paco, give me my flowers when I am alive, so that I can enjoy them.” Like most things she said, I took it to heart and I am glad to know that, indeed, I was able to shower her with flowers, accompanied with a barrage of hugs and kisses, quite frequently. I sorely miss those days, yet the rich and warm memories remain. To this day, it is a challenge to accept that my Mom is no longer here, but she taught me well and Baby D and I shall carry on, with the teachings she imparted to us, in her own special and loving way. My Mom practised what she preached and provided a living, loving example of the true essence of all that comprise maternal virtues. I am blessed to have been the recipient of 41 years of my Mom’s loving-kindness and with that thought, although heavy-laden with sorrow, I say, “Happy Birthday Mom….Baby D and I love and miss you more than words can adequately describe”.
Posted on: Wed, 11 Sep 2013 09:41:05 +0000