One of the traps my mind has got me into is the physical hunger for closeness. From one angle I can see how much I thrive when in the kind of relationship that is close, physical... not just intimacy but holding hands, hugging lots sitting close on the sofa, walking arm-in-arm kind of thing. Nothing wrong with that I hear you say - depends on the intention! If the hidden intention is to earn love, to enable myself to feel whole, feel loved so I can ultimately give myself permission to love myself then that intention creates a feeling in a partner of clinginess desperation and ultimately suffocation - big passion-killer! Ultimately causing separation and rejection in her need to get air, space, the ability to breathe. So... watching my energy, intention need for touch to understand what my intention is... ...moving consciously into the space of repeating to myself that I am loveable without needing to earn it from anyone else, not as a Mindless noise but as a Mantra of love and being home... calling myself back reeling my hooks and energy in. P
Posted on: Mon, 14 Apr 2014 11:04:36 +0000
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