Overcome Inferiority Complex ! Some comedian once said that they had an inferiority complex,but it was,nt a very good one It may be a joke ,but it has a serious point.If you have got into the "habit" of feeling inferior to others,then you can literally feel inferior about anything.Feeling inferior is linked to a sense of shame about the self. A feeling that you are not "up to the mark" or that you just dont measure up. As human beings we are all very aware of status,although we like to pretend we dont care about it. We speak of being "one up "or"put down". Where we are in the pecking order is important to us An inferiority complex makes you worry about what others think about you all the time Why should you feel inferior?having an inferiority complex is about "emotion" not about thinking. I know i am an inferior athlete to Usain Bolt [and many more]. Im cool with that it doesnt bother me in the least.I know my looks are inferior to Brad Pitt,s-but who cares? I dont ! i know my wealth is inferior to Bill gates-it doesnt really matter.These are just facts. if you have an inferiority complex,chances are you feel more comfortable spending time with people who you feel aren,t too accomplished or too sucessful,or too good looking or confident themselves.you probably prefer to be with people who you feel aren,t going to judge you too harshly. People who automatically feel inferior make assumptions based on "imagination" not knowledge.They assume that other people dont have self doubts and secret fears. It can come as a shock to learn that all people with any sensitivity "will" doubt themselves sometimes.In fact self doubt is usefull as an ocassional tool.It helps us be humane and stops us assuming we know it all.As with all things "balance" is essential. Hypnosis can help you stop assuming you,re not as good as other people and help you accept your own areas of strength as well as weakness with objectivity and "calm ".
Posted on: Mon, 07 Oct 2013 13:15:24 +0000
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