PART 1 HARD BUT TRUE NUGGETS TO CRACK LADIES! ● WOMEN WERE CREATED FOR MAN Gen 2 vs 20-23 ; This sound riduculous but its true hun, A woman was created for a man, though this does not make You less of Gods creation or inferior...but it only makes you realize that you are special and you are not in same ranking with a man, he is not your colleague or partner in business, but he is your Lord and head of the home, you are to respect, look unto him and follow his leading especially on the familys Vision. This why I said sometime ago that you shouldnt marry a man you cant respect and look unto. ● NO MAN WANTS A SECOND MOTHER, AN ELDER SISTER, A BOSS OR A NURSE; Whenever a woman takes the lead in a relationship, whether it is doing the calling, suggesting a date, or professing Love, the devil takes your good intentions and turn them into wrong impressions. Suddenly, an impulse of your good will on your part will be interpreted as you closing in on him or chasing him. All those cute cards, suprises, thoughtful gifts etc become a vise that threatens his ego or to squeeze the life out of the interest he has in you. He becomes overwhelmed with the responsibility of deciding quick to commit because this triggers panic in his heart and he begins to fight for space in order to grab some control of the Relationship. Thats why, you as a Unique Lady is suppose to be intruiguing, fascinating, under authority, submissive, Nice, Supportive and Attractive. ● BE ACCOMODATIVE AND NOT A NAG; You know what the Bible says about a nagging wife in Proverbs 19 vs 13 When you notice something he is not doing right, keep telling him in Love and not taking insignificant issues to the climax. When you nag on him too much, it might get to him and trust me, its dangerous because he might get that signal of always meeting a naggging wife home, so by so doing he would start avoiding the house...but when you are accomodative, homely and welcoming even in his weakness...In little or no time he would change. ● PRAY FOR HIM & DONT COMPARE HIM; Sometimes most women have the attitude of comparing their spouse forgetting that they are no same relationship in the world. Ceces fiance decided to take Cece to Switzerland or the Caribbean for their honeymoon and then Marys fiance decide its Obudu-Cattle range they would go dont make Marys fiance less of a man, because different taste for different folks and all fingers are not equal. LEARN THE ACT OF LISTENING; Remember this simple adage Two wrongs cant make a right he is shouting you are shouting, what different does it make. When you listen, you are quick in knowing what triggers his anger. Every man has an atom of babyish attitude in them, but it only takes a Unique lady to understand him in that state. If your husband ask you to quit your job, you are suppose to do it, but with the state of our economy, hardly will one partys money fend for the home. So when he feels your career his pulling a threat to the home and he ask you to quit, hurtful, I know, but as a virtuous woman dont argue, yell or ask him if he paid your fees, listen to his points and after his nerve his calm bring out your woman power and talk to him, make him see why you cant be an house wife and promise to adjust on your weakness, even if that man is a devil, he would corporate, but most time we are quick to screaming back or filing for a divorce. NB; For any home to work JESUS has to be the foundation, the MAN the Head and the WOMAN the Pillar PRAYER; Dear heavenly father, I commit my heart into your care, keep it safe within the hollows of your hands. Teach me to draw near to you, as I give my hurts and expectations to you. Grant me the desires of my heart. And let only the man you want to find me seek me. In Jesus name. Amen!
Posted on: Thu, 28 Aug 2014 16:51:15 +0000
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