Part Eight from our book The Choice for Consciousness: Tools for Conscious Living Vol 2. So, when triggers come, when static comes, or discomfort comes, when any of these things show up in your life, you say, “Yes, I want healing above all else. I want healing above all else.” And that reminder to your system that, “Oh yes, we dont do habit here. We dont play in static. We dont give up in static. We dont stop in habit. We allow for one thing and that one thing is the opportunity to experience the completeness of me. Period. Thats it. Thats what I allow for.” And you have very, very strong standards about only allowing for that reality to be in your experience: “I only wish to have that as my reality.” And really, when you allow yourself to live from a perspective that has that strict of a standard, its going to help you facilitate your spiritual growth and come to a place in your life where you know the truth of you more quickly and more deeply because you have a standard. Just like you are very less likely to decide to look at life as a victim, and that helps you to see the creatorship that you have. When you dont see your life in these other ways, you start to see your life in the way of the completeness of you being present. No one can make you do it and no one can do it for you. And no one can make you do this and no one can do it for you. Thats the beauty of free will, and the responsibility. But you have a responsibility to yourself to decide whether this feels like a path for you, and if it does, to make that commitment that “Above all else, above all else, above all else, the completeness of me, the truth of me. Not the habit, not the 2005 version or the 1995 version, but the current, in the moment completeness of me connected to my souls perspective emanating into the world, observing experiences as learning opportunities rather than right or wrong, good or bad.” And handling triggers as if they were the most precious possession you owned because theyre giving you the opportunity to see the place within you that’s ready for transformation. To take responsibility for your reactions to the creations you bring in as you look into your world and you see behaviors that you either like or dont like. The decision to put these things at the top of your list can only be made by you; and the commitment and recommitment to it over and over again as time passes and as experiences are had, only you can make that, as well. So you arrive at a point where you recognize, “OK, I have more freedom than Ive ever had in any other incarnation to choose my circumstances. I have more freedom because I believe in who I am. I dont need to surround myself with people as much as I used to in order to feel loved or real or acknowledged or like Im not going to die because I dont have a tribe. And when I recognize that their behavior is simply reflective of whats going on in my internal life and I change my internal life and their behavior doesnt change, thats not acceptable to me anymore, or their behavior does change and it goes to something even less acceptable, or I just recognize, ‘Look dude, I just dont resonate with you anymore, out you go.’ ” That is freedom, but your tribal set-up and your way of being might tell you thats to be feared. Because people will say, “Oh, I dont have any friends,” or “I dont have a lot of friends and I dont want to get rid of the ones I have because if I do there wont be new ones.” Well, part of that is like saying, “Well, I dont want to get rid of these sandbags because if I do I dont have any more.” And its like: Yeah, but if you dont get rid of some of the sandbags, the balloon never goes up. Theres a balance there. And part of the balance is you saying, “I want healing above all else. I want healing above all else. Does this relationship facilitate healing?” That is a really super-good question to just run through on every single one of your relationships. “Does this relationship facilitate healing?” ***this book is available in your Amazon store in ebook and paperback. It is part of a three-volume series. *** See order link for the US store in the comments. To order from other Amazon stores, search for Choice for Consciousness, Tools for Conscious Living.
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