People are not committed to you, they are committed to what they feel will fulfil their values most. It is unwise to live in a fantasy that they will do otherwise. Social idealisms are not how people act. People don’t match story book ideals, they make decisions daily based upon what they feel will result in their greatest advantage or reward. If you want them to stick to and fulfil their original statements, their so-called commitments to you, then there needs to be more advantages and rewards for doing so, or they will change their minds and follow an alternative, more advantageous route or action. Provide them with more advantages than disadvantages for doing what you would love them to do, and they will live by what they originally stated. - Dr Demartini
Posted on: Mon, 29 Sep 2014 22:41:46 +0000
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