People ask me every day where I draw my motivation from. How was it that in the midst of horrendous grief I was able to find a smile, a laugh, and hope for a life beyond loss. My answer is complicated, but as I watched a video tribute to my late husband last night it dawned on me once again that HE has been a major factor in my ability to live a full and fit life beyond his death. You see, my Mitch was a deeply happy soul. You can see it in his photos, his unmistakable smile, his zeal for life, and his ability to love nearly everyone he ever met. He was a rare and special man who taught me more than I could have imagined possible in a mere 15 years together. I always thought I was placed on this earth to teach him. I thought Id give him my deep drive for success, or my desire for more *stuff*. After his passing I learned he was my teacher all along. He taught me to value the small and seemingly insignificant joys of life. He taught me to laugh, love, and live as big of a life as one could possible live. Living big for Mitch was never about the size of our home, the car we drove, or even a title attached to his name. Living big for Mitch was never missing a moment to smile, never missing a chance to explore, and never forgetting to say, I love you. Mitch lived one of the biggest lives Ive ever seen. So tonight, I once again take notes from my teacher and remember that what we leave on this earth when we go is not monetary or tangible. What we leave that really mattes is the imprint on the souls of those we love, and the memories we made while making a life worth remembering. In his honor I make my days count. In his honor I teach my kids who he was by living like he did. Happy, laughing, smiling, and making the most of the beautiful day before me. No excuses, no regrets. ~1fw
Posted on: Thu, 23 Jan 2014 03:38:19 +0000
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