REVENGE!!! When a man seeks revenge,he wants that person to feel the pain that he feels.I want you to feel the hurt that youve caused me,is what he says to himself.Everything he does and says is to deliberately bring the pain to the one he feels has hurt him;which usually only results in jail time or worse. Women handle revenge a little differently. She also wants that person to hurt as she hurts,but she needs for him to feel responsible for hurting her.Therefore,a woman will put you out there.When a woman does and say mean things, it is to tell the world how bad you are.She says to herself,Everyone is going to know that youre no good.She wants him and the whole world to share her feelings that he is no good.But what she is really looking for is to be heard.Her need to tell the world(and fb) about him is her indirect way to tell the world how she feels,because in the relationship nobody cared about how she felt.However,to stay in this mindset only keeps you in victim-mode. The heart can handle a loss,but it is the sense of loss that keeps us up at night.Just except the fact that you had the wrong man or woman for the job,and ask God to give you peace to deal with happened or didnt happen and keep it moving.But next time, dont let anyone else be in charge of your emotional state.Learn how to love without that clingy sense of dependency or attachment.Only God can give you peace.
Posted on: Wed, 30 Apr 2014 15:07:25 +0000
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