Read and Share Never waste your time looking for a so called “perfect mate” for a relationship if you are not ready to maintain one, often times, relationships don’t always work as planned and people turn to think and claim that the person they were with was not perfect enough for them, whereas if they had consulted God, things would be different. With that said, any person you agreed to date is perfect enough for you, otherwise you wouldnt have initiated the relationship if they werent, unless the initiation was based certain reasons best known to you. Sometimes breakups occur as a result of failures in working together on those small things that act as catalysts in disguise on enhancing your love for each other, examples of these are good communication, how you understand each other, not only being lovers but best friends as well and etc. Even though that sometimes its hard, learn to hold on in times of troubles, problems are there to test how firm your foundation is together, bear a patient heart, having that you know you are going far together. Well, in some situations, you just have to run away when things arent going as expected, but thats not always the case, it depends with situations, i mean how many relationships are you going to end up in when all you do is run away instead of trying harder in fixing your problems together?, some of which arent worth called problems because sometimes we let even the smallest things sabotage our relationships. Take care of that one you are with now or the one you still are going to be with whenever, stay grounded on each other and watch your LOVE grow. Dont get so hooked on seeking for particular qualities in the kind of mate you wish to spend the rest of your life with. With whatever character or quality you desire to perceive from them, cultivate those first in you because thats what the person you are looking for are seeking for also. - If you desire to be with a good listener, stop blabbering too much and dont be self-cantered, If its a caring person you seeking, start caring for other people etc, if you desire to be with a Man of God, start cultivating a Mrs Man of God character in you, if you desire to be with a no nonsense type of guy, start eliminating all your nonsense ways and get real.
Posted on: Fri, 14 Mar 2014 20:21:21 +0000
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