SEQUENCE OF EVENTS & WHY THIS SERIES OF ARGUMENTS: Some History: > 2009: National meet, because of internal tussle, 4 members (Bangalore) announce that they are quitting SIF (known by NGO name SIFF that time) and starting Confidare Consultancy LLP. > Everyone wishes them good luck. > A goodwill expected but never fulfilled, they still keep SIFF website under their control. > Some rules are formulated because they keep campaigning to make SIF paid with different chapter leads but not able to succeed in getting consensus. > Then they start making defaming posts on FB & on a group, MRA-Collective asking Swarup to move out of activities and to handle only media and leave group to them (same group they had left in 2009) > That attempt is refuted and SIF continues to be in safe hands. > They continue derogatory messages about SIF on FB saying SIF people are autocratic and they were thrown out of SIF for opposing SIF (hiding the fact that because of their paid model love, they themselves left SIF) > Few rules decided were that LLP company would not use SIF (SIFF then) database to make members & will bring it on their own & also that ownership of SIFF website should not become an issue. > But silently, in Bangalore, they asked the then counsellors of SIF Weekly Meetings to start sending victims to Confidare. Reason which was given to counsellors was crowd is too much and you can not handle it in meetings to send ALL of them to paid model. > Gradually they found few supporters in Delhi and gradually started feeding them with false data about SIF and feeding them hatred towards SIF Seniors. > These new followers who came to SIF, took help, inspite of knowing SIFs goodwill and brotherhood blindly followed them probably for some financial gains. > In the meantime, Bangalore men woke up against this virtual Dealership which they were subjected to unwillingly and decided to register SIF Karnataka as a different NGO > Then messages started coming that SIF Counsellors are no more authorized to run weekly meetings in Bangalore (Why? Who were they? They had left SIF, remember?) > SIF Karnataka Team saved the Bangalore chapter and rebuilt it to a place of brotherhood and compassion quickly because when you are not selling anything or buying anything, all you can exchange is feelings, emotions and support. > With those few Delhi supporters, infiltration started. They said, we will give training to Delhi team (their dream for ages) and through those supporters, trained few to lay down the foundation of Confidare. > And in parallel, hate messages on FB & MRA-Collective reached to new lows (SIF members were either kicked out of MRA-Collective or were kept silent) and messages were posted SIF is Dead, will close down SIF website with garland on SIF website. All this for opposition for one thing: SIF YAHOOGROUP SHOULD BE CLOSED DOWN, SIF SHOULD END GIVING FREE HELP. WHILE ALL THIS HAPPENED, SIF NEVER RESPONDED ON FB OR ANY OTHER PUBLIC FORUM TO MAINTAIN DECORAM OF THE MOVEMENT, TO NOT REVEAL ALL THIS INTERNAL DIRT WHICH WAS BEING SPREAD WITH UNETHICAL UNDERCURRENTS. SIF NRI MEMBERS RECEIVED INVITES TO JOIN CONFIDARE (CLEAR VIOLATION). Infact, inspite of all these events, SIF-K maintained utmost professionalism & focussed only on men welfare and requested it members to come with full force and join any activity that even Confidare does for Mens Rights. ================================================================================ Now, all this is History. 9th March 2014, SFF NGO & Hridaya NGO (part of SAVE Indian Family Movement) celebrated SIF Foundation Day marking completion of 9 Years of Save Indian Family Yahoogrou - which is the backbone of the Movement). Confidare & few of their Delhi supporters started abusing, ridiculing, sarcastic comments on FB. The even was a grand success as Honble Justice (Retd.) Shiv Narayan Dhingra & Honble Suhaib Ilyasi presided over the event as the Honble Chief Guest & Special Guest. Save Family Magazine (tinyurl/oo9fsvp), SIFs first ever Magazine was unvield in this grand celebrations. For the first time, SIF even proved that Movement needs funding and the same needs to be done from Corporate India & not innocent victims. Taking money from victims could have been easiest but we dint, we said, lets put in hardwork and do it, n we did it). Complete event, Magazine was done purely on Corporate Funding & an event with completely filled Auditorium of 183 people witnessing the event. This wasnt a Legal Seminar were members come to get solutions, here we were 183 people to celebrate, Celebrate the Movement, Celebrate SIF. Lot of members joined it over various live tweets, live FB updates which dedicated teams did all through). So all in all, all this success dint go down well with all know who. Now, they HEARD Delhi Activists got their wives back to join them. As per their modus operandi, of spreading falsehood and keep attacking SIF, their Delhi supporter made a story that SIF Delhi team is advising people to get back their 498A wives. Truth was either of the wives never filed 498A. They kept building onto the same story. All of them jumped into making that story spread (false story spread). Even the only one who had some respect left with SIF Leaders / Founders / Members, made the same false statement on FB inspite of being aware of the fact. And all this was done to those very people who extended all the hospitality to those who were defaming him. When few SIF Members opposed this false propaganda and in turn defaming the movement on FB, they were hurled with abuses like Chu***. This was the kind of answer which was given to fellow Mens Rights Activists. Then, it was the limit, it was the end of our patience and it became unavoidable to expose the real faces of such abusive Mens Victimization Abusers. Our apologies to all those who feel this is uncalled for but I hope that above details would help you understand why a silence of over 4 years now has erupted now to save the dignity & respect of SIF & Mens Rights Movement of India. And if someone wishes to see, we can share evidences to bring facts with evidences too. And please note that whereas all of those advocating for SIF have been blocked by them, this wall, post is open for anyone and everyone to comment and prove otherwise if they wish. So essentially, this is not a war to say Paid model is wrong or right, it is just to say, if peace is disturbed, SIF will not keep quiet either. To avoid any claims, SIF has moved to its new website saveindianfamily.in
Posted on: Fri, 28 Mar 2014 16:21:21 +0000
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