Share This I get upset when people Hold Grudges then Talk Negatively To Me about then they let it Take over there lives !! Let it go ! Forgiveness can be mysterious. It can come when we least expect it, or we can search for years but never find it. Each individual must find his or her won way to forgiveness, but I offer the following four steps to suggest a way: First of all, feel the pain. You must acknowledge how you have been hurt. Second, talk to selected people you trust and relive and reflect upon what happened. You need to talk it out to help put it into perspective. Third, ask yourself the question, “What do I want this pain to turn into?” If your answer is something like peace or growth or wisdom, you are on your way. Now start trying to spit the hook of anger and resentment that is stuck inside you. This can take time. Keep talking to others. Consider how you yourself need forgiveness. Also consider how you might be acting like a fool by holding onto your anger. Keep working on it, and you probably will be able to spit the hook. Fourth, take stock, move on, and teach others what you have learned about how to forgive. This world needs help in learning the practical skill of forgiveness. Once you have learned it, teach others what you know. What worked for you will not necessarily work for them, but your example will most surely help.
Posted on: Tue, 18 Jun 2013 04:31:40 +0000
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