*** Signs Of Immaturity In Marriage: FOR MEN *** 1) Rejecting food wen theres an issue: Oga husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refuse to eat because you dey vex. Its one of the greatest signs of immaturity, its time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason, you could go somewhere wen angry but ensure that you dont allow it 2 linger unnecessarily because dat is enough for the devil to build on. 2) Telling your wife severally that you are the head: May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. Yu need not shout or scream it daily. Its important for you to know when and how to be firm and put yur feet down over issues, however dont become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head. 3) Issuing threats: Beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging abt marrying another wife does not make you a man. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her childish woman part, play the matured man. 4) Reporting your wife to friends and family: Wen yur wife offends, correct and talk things through. You dont have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black nd sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. It is also out of place for any man to love his mother more than his wife and kids, doing this only sets up your home for crisis. 5) Competition: Have you seen couples who compete with each other over material acquisitions? Their properties and investments are always in separate names. As the wife borrows to buy a Ferrari, the husband is running after a bugatti. How childish can we be? This also leads to insecurity, jealousy and inferiority/ superiority complex. Please lets check ourselves and work as a team.
Posted on: Thu, 07 Nov 2013 06:09:12 +0000
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