So i was reading an article and it was pretty interesting. Heres what caught my attention Facebook. Why do we always go back to our ex-boyfriends, old lovers, old flings? Especially right after your current significant other leaves you. What is so appealing about bringing the trash back into the house when it’s already at the dumpster? Ladies, Im sure you left him for a valid reason in the first place. Whatever the reason, just say NO! Youre only with him to have someone to occupy your mind. So why do we go back to our ex? Because we already have a sense of familiarity with them and its much easier then starting fresh and going through all the phases again. If youre going back to your ex simply to fill a void, it just wont last. Going back to an ex right after youve gotten out of a relationship/engagement/marriage is a no-no as well. We all know making quick decisions like that leaves for a quick breakup. If youre fresh out of a relationship, you have got to find time for yourself ladies. Instead of running back to Mr. Ex for comfort! To conclude this topic of discussion, youll never know what you truly want when getting out of one relationship and jumping into another, especially to one of the past. Youve got to remember why you left him that last time. Ask yourself do you really want to go through it all over again? Who is to say people cant change? That may be true but bare in mind, youll begin to believe anything if your heart is still broken from your current fiasco. Find time for yourself, if youre freshly out of a relationship. Chances are youre still hurt/angry/upset and might not even be sober. Making a decision based on current emotions will bite you in the rear. And always remember, trash belongs at the dumpster, not in the house! [Please subscribe to the link at the bottom of this article for more tips and advice for relationships]
Posted on: Thu, 15 Jan 2015 11:22:43 +0000
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