So, yesterday my friends and I had a heated up debate conversation on this topic. Many are the times when men leave totally beautiful women and go for another woman who if asked is not even halfway as good looking, leaving the beautiful woman ‘strung along’ This is nothing new to me what so ever. Someone once told me that beautiful women are the loneliest beings on earth. For some unknown reason, the attractive woman is never really married or taken. Sadly, she is always playing the role of the ‘back up plan’ or ‘the other woman’. Many men tend not to have extremely attractive women for wives or girlfriends but will always stare, wink, or approach them when their better halves are not around. The sad part is that at the end of the day, the men would not leave their significant others for the beautiful woman. Assumptions/false conclusions- when a man looks or spots a beautiful woman at a party, he will automatically expect the beautiful woman to be taken which is usually far from the truth. Insecurity- sometimes, men do not go for extremely beautiful women because they feel that they are not ready to spend their whole life chasing her around and making sure that no other guy is after her. This is a form of insecurity. Low expectations- some men would look at a beautiful woman and not expect a pretty girl to know how to cook. Stereotypes- A stereotypic man would expect a beautiful woman to be a bad cook because she has most likely been spoilt by society doing things for her just because of how she looks. Narcissism- most beautiful women suffer from this and are therefore unable to maintain long term relationships because of their self indulgent ways. It’s all about her and what she does. Therefore, most men would rather go for a lesser pretty woman than a narcissist. Negatively ambitious attitude- being ambitious is okay but the negative kind of ambition is wrong. The beautiful woman feels she has all the time in the world to snag that rich, handsome guy and is not willing to settle for anything less. Raising the bar so high- she wants perfection, she wants the perfect man and therefore if a man does not look his occupation, she does not bother giving him the time of day. She battles with feeling of discontent and forgets that nobody’s perfect. Someone once told me that beauty is not everything. Just because the flower is beautiful, doesn’t mean that the man will want to pick it. Once a man spots a beautiful flower, the next step is to find the real person behind the mask. #truth
Posted on: Tue, 13 Jan 2015 18:10:04 +0000
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