Someone from last week’s party asked this question: “What is the best way to deal with being eternally punished or shut-out especially after a good encounter. i.e. a warm hug during a birthday party? I try to tell myself, my Mom shows up at different ways at different times but it still hurts. It is especially difficult as we near the holidays.” Here is my response: You are right it is not you. It is coming to terms with the disorder and that mother has limitations. Hard to do but part of our recovery. We have to separate from it psychologically and not allow mother’s disorder to define us.
Posted on: Sat, 26 Oct 2013 15:17:11 +0000
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