Statistics say 60% of Kenyan women of marriageable age are single mothers.This is not condemn single mothers but one thing is obvious,there is someone who never took his responsibility of a father seriously,thus landing our girls to this unfortunate state. As this trends of irresponsible fatherhood grows by leaps and bounds,then what should the women who are in their early yrs do,before getting hooked before marriage Wisdom teaches that in such a situation,some measures must be put in place,before any good and Godly woman says i do! I may not know all the measures to put in place,but i have one that i feel is fundamental.The 1st one is the fear of God.When you fear God,the devil has no room to bring you down The 2nd Investment for any single lady in her early yrs of life,is to educating yourself before you say i do . Many times the media is full of hoary messages of women who have been abandoned, and with kids dangling on their back and on an empty stomach.When they cry for help to the government,anyone with amind should know how to avoid such a situation happening to him in future.Yes,not all marriages will last however how much we want but investing in educating yourself will make you have something to cushion you,and your kids,from impending danger of starvation and thus when you have a job,you will be able to see the kids through anything that comes with an irresponsible fatherhood.As they say,love never pays bills and for sure,its true.Look for a way of sustaining yourself before you say i do.It will help you pay the bills and if [God forbid],your marriage crumbles,you will move on with ease,aware that you have something that will pay your rent,water and fees for the kids....just thinking buy you can add your thought too
Posted on: Tue, 15 Jul 2014 08:32:46 +0000