THIS IS AN UPDATE TO THE LINKED POST: I would like to thank everyone for POSITIVE advice especially Becka Chum. Everyone is entitled to their opinions, even the negative people. I was not posting all of my business on the internet. I was simply looking for advice since I wasnt getting any and just being shunned. Yes, I have children but just because I am not married is besides the point. I dont want to get married right now when I still myself to work on emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically. Can I love myself and stay loving myself long enough to let a man ask a life altering decision that effects all of us? Thats why I am not married because of the secrets I kept that were eating at me for so long. I gave birth to a Christmas baby. Im still in therapy, I joined support groups, I am taking care of my children and myself mentally. Im not rushing marriage knowing I have demons that I am still fighting. To the father of my children, we talked. I asked him if he wanted out because if so his clothes were already packed and ready to go. He said no and that he just didnt know how to accept something so intense that he fell apart. He too was molested by his two older brothers and became too much to bare. He apologized and asked me what exactly was PTSD. I gave him the information from my therapist. He scheduled an appointment for himself to work on how to get passed his horror and he will be joining me for my session and to see how we can heal together and move forward. He is not a bad guy, he is a wonderful father. We just were irresponsible on not being proactive about having children but we are doing the best we can. Zane thank you for your advice, it was really helpful. However I am keeping my eyes peeled. If it turns out he is not my BOAZ he will surely be on the curb because I do not need the stress and then once I am mentally fit I will be looking for my BOAZ. Thanks again. MY RESPONSE: There can be no progress without discussion. I am so glad that the two of you are going to try to work through this. In the end, that is all any of us can do. Let me know what happens after your therapy sessions. https://facebook/AuthorZane/posts/10152185868492267
Posted on: Mon, 14 Jul 2014 02:48:57 +0000
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