TIPS. Sa mga nang liligaw 1 Be interesting. The first thing youve really got to do is make yourself the kind of person that people notice and want to be around. This is the best way to get and keep your crushs attention attention. Get up off the couch and start doing things with your life! This will give you something to be proud about, something to talk about, and show others the full, complex person that you are. You can volunteer, pick up a new hobby, join a club, get a job, or any number of other activities. 2 Be positive. No one wants to deal with someone whos always complaining or who constantly says bad things about other people. Instead of only seeing the bad things in life, bring out the good in everything and everyone around you. Find the positive spin or lessons to be learned from bad situations. Your crush will notice and feel much better about your positive personality. 3 Be nice. No one wants to date someone who might say bad things about them or be mean to them. Show your crush that thats not you by being nice, not only to them but to everyone around you. Help people, always have a kind word for someone who needs one, compliment people, and find other ways to be nice too. 4 Be clean. Take care of your body. This shows that you care about and value yourself, showing others that you are worth caring about and valuing. Wear clean clothes with no holes or stains, wash your hair and body regularly, take good care of your skin and exercise as much as you can. 5 Be yourself. You want your crush to like you for who you are, so always be yourself. Dont change yourself or try to be someone youre not. People can usually tell and youll only make yourself frustrated and sad. Do the things that you enjoy and if anyone doesnt like it, then they arent worth your time. Part Two: Getting Your Crushs Attention 1 Be confident. Everyone likes someone whos confident. This is a very attractive quality for boys and girls! Of course, you dont have to actually be confident. Most people arent, even if they seem like they are. Treat yourself well, dont constantly apologize to everyone, and get out there and do the things that make you you. 2 Wear nice clothes. Some great clothes will certainly capture attention. Wear clothes that fit the current fashions but also are flattering to your coloring and the shape of your body. You dont have to break the bank, either. Try resale or thrift shops in trendy areas or nearby colleges or universities for stylish clothes on the cheap. 3 Act like you dont care. Dont be clingy or desperate. This will make your crush think you have issues they really dont want to deal with. Instead, put on an air of cool. If they dont seem like they want to talk to you, go talk to someone else. Throw parties and dont invite them until the last minute. Show them that you have your own life and that your world doesnt revolve around cataloging every time they so much as sneeze. 4 Be easy-going and approachable. You dont want to intimidate your crush. Maybe they already like you but theyre worried youll blow them off or bit their head off if they try to talk to you or ask you out! Be friendly, dont over-react to things, and definitely dont act like a jerk if someone else that you dont like asks you out. 5 Let your crush see you with other guys/girls. Let they seem you talking to an hanging out with other members of the gender you prefer to date. They need to see that you have other options and that you know you have other options. This will make you more desirable. 6 Talk to him or her! Of course, the best way to get their attention is to talk to them! They might not even know you exist if youre too shy, so get out there and have a conversation with them. Ask them about what theyre doing this weekend, or how their day went. Ask them about things youre doing in school or their opinion on the latest football match. Anything that gets the two of you talking is great. Part Three: Making Your Crush Interested 1 Get to know him or her. No one is going to fall head over heels for someone they dont know and that they know doesnt know them! Get to know your crush, beyond the absolute basics (birthday, favorite color, etc) and learn what really makes them tick. Of course, the best way to do that is to talk with them. 2 Find common interests. Find things you have in common. This will give you something to talk about but it will also give you something to bond over. Youll be friends before you know it and a friendship is much easier to build on. You can compare interests, learn their interests just by paying attention, or you can explore the things they like. Who knows, maybe youll find that you really like their taste! 3 Be a good friend. The qualities of a good friend are also the qualities of a good boyfriend or girlfriend, so start by being a good friend so that your crush can see what they have to look forward to. They say that the person you date should be your best friend, so its probably a good idea to set the bar high, right? You can be supportive when their feeling down, help them whenever you can, be fun and help them relax, make them laugh (especially when theyre having a bad day), and generally be a good friend. 4 Create trust. There needs to be trust, in order for real romantic feelings to develop (and stick around). Never reveal a secret they tell you, dont generally go around telling people their business, and be someone that they can come to with their problems without having to worry about being laughed at or judged. 5 Give him or her space. Give them the space to go out and do the things that they want to do. One fear that a lot of people have about dating is that the demand on their time and affection will mean that they wont be able to hang out with their friends or on their own as much, and that they wont get the time to do the things that they want to do. Give your crush some space and alone time and theyll see that you value their happiness above your own. 6 Flirt! Well, they need to know that you like them, dont they? Flirt with them and show them that you are definitely interested. This will tell them that they can return your feelings without having to worry as much about rejection.
Posted on: Sun, 27 Oct 2013 17:34:51 +0000
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