The 3 ways to deal with an abusive relationship: 1 - Leave. (But usually you find yourself in a similar situation because theres an unresolved tendency towards abusive situations. Better is: leave and work on your shit so you dont have to go through it again). 2 - Stay and work on your shit. When you change your internal relationship with yourself, the abusive relationship must naturally change too - because a relationship is nothing more than the space between two people. When you change, the space is changed, and the other person must necessarily change too - and a positive change in you will always provoke only a positive change in them too, in the long run) 3 - And ideally, both parties work on their stuff. If you can do it simultaneously, then you can transform the relationship completely... and in so doing you heal your ancestors, and your descendants, and the world around you.
Posted on: Mon, 09 Jun 2014 08:44:51 +0000