The Four Poisons of the Heart From the works of Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali, Ibn al-Qayyim al-Jawziyya, and Imam Ghazali You should know that all acts of disobedience are poison to the heart and cause its sickness and ruin. They result in its will running off course, against that of Allah, and so its sickness festers and increases. Ibn al-Mubarak said: I have seen wrong actions killing hearts, And their degradation may lead to their becoming addicted to them. Turning away from wrong actions gives life to the hearts, And opposing your self is best for it. Whoever is concerned with the health and life of his heart, must rid it of the effects of such poisons, and then protect it by avoiding new ones. If he takes any by mistake, then he should hasten to wipe out their effect by turning in repentance and seeking forgiveness from Allah, as well as by doing good deeds that will wipe out his wrong actions. By the four poisons we mean unnecessary talking, unrestrained glances, too much food, and keeping bad company. Of all the poisons, these are the most widespread and have the greatest effect on a hearts well-being. Unnecessary Talking It is reported in al-Musnad, on the authority of Anas رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه , that the Prophet (صلّى اللّـه عليه و سلّم) said: The faith of a servant is not put right until his heart is put right, and his heart is not put right until his tongue is put right.1 This shows that the Prophet (صلّى اللّـه عليه و سلّم) has made the purification of faith conditional on the purification of the heart, and the purification of the heart conditional on the purification of the tongue. At-Tirmidhi relates in a hadith on the authority of Ibn Umar: Do not talk excessively without remembering Allah, because such excessive talk without the mention of Allah causes the heart to harden, and the person furthest from Allah is a person with a hard heart.2 Umar Ibn al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, said: A person who talks too much is a person who often makes mistakes, and someone who often makes mistakes, often has wrong actions. The Fire has a priority over such a frequent sinner.3 In a hadith related on the authority of Muadh رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه , the Prophet (صلّى اللّـه عليه و سلّم) said, Shall I not tell you how to control all that? I said, Yes do, O Messenger of Allah. So he held his tongue between his fingers, and then he said: Restrain this. I said, Oh Prophet of Allah, are we accountable for what we say? He (صلّى اللّـه عليه و سلّم) said, May your mother be bereft by your loss! Is there anything more than the harvest of the tongues that throws people on their faces (or he said on their noses) into the Fire? 4 What is meant here by the harvest of the tongues is the punishment for saying forbidden things. A man, through his actions and words, sows the seeds of either good or evil. On the Day of Resurrection he harvests their fruits. Those who sow the seeds of good words and deeds harvest honour and blessings; those who sow the seeds of evil words and deeds reap only regret and remorse. A hadith related by Abu Huraira رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه says: What mostly causes people to be sent to the Fire are the two openings: the mouth and the private parts.5 Abu Huraira رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه also related that the Messenger of Allah (صلّى اللّـه عليه و سلّم) said: The servant speaks words, the consequences of which he does not realize, and for which he is sent down into the depths of the Fire further than the distance between the east and the west.6 The same hadith was transmitted by at-Tirmidhi with slight variations: The servant says something that he thinks is harmless, and for which he will be plunged into the depths of the Fire as far as seventy autumns.7 Uqba ibn Amir said: I said: O Messenger of Allah, what is our best way of surviving? He, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, replied: Guard your tongue, make your house suffice for sheltering your privacy, and weep for your wrong actions.8 It has been related on the authority of Sahl ibn Sad رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه that the Prophet (صلّى اللّـه عليه و سلّم) said: Whoever can guarantee what is between his jaws and what is between his legs I guarantee him the Garden.9 It has also been related by Abu Hurairah, may Allah be pleased with him, that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, Let whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day either speak good or remain silent.10 Thus talking can either be good, in which case it is commendable, or bad, in which case it is forbidden. The Prophet (صلّى اللّـه عليه و سلّم) said: Everything the children of Adam say goes against them, except for their enjoining good and forbidding evil, and remembering Allah, Glorius and Might is He. This was reported by at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah on the authority of Umm Habiba, may Allah be pleased with her.11 Umar ibn al-Khattab رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه visited Abu Bakr رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه , may Allah be pleased with them, and found him pulling his tongue with his fingers. Umar رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه said Stop! may Allah forgive you! Abu Bakr رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه replied; This tongue has brought me to dangerous places.12 Abdullah ibn Masud رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه said: By Allah, besides Whom no god exists, nothing deserves a long prison sentence more than my tongue. He also used to say: O tongue, say good and you will profit; desist from saying evil things and you will be safe; otherwise you will find only regret. Abu Huraira رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه reported that Ibn al-Abbas رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه said: A person will not feel greater fury or anger for any part of his body on the Day of Judgment more than what he will feel for his tongue, unless he only used it for saying or enjoining good. Al-Hassan said: Whoever does not hold his tongue cannot understand his deen. The least harmful of a tongues faults is talking about whatever does not concern it. The following hadith of the Prophet (صلّى اللّـه عليه و سلّم) is enough to indicate the harm of this fault: One of the merits of a persons Islam is his abandoning what does not concern him.13 Abu Ubaidah related that al-Hassan said: One of the signs of Allahs abandoning a servant is His making him preoccupied with what does not concern him. Sahl said, Whoever talks about what does not concern him is deprived of truthfulness. As we have already mentioned above, this is the least harmful of the tongues faults. There are far worse things, like backbiting, gossiping, obscene and misleading talk, two-faced and hypocritical talk, showing off, quarrelling, bickering, singing, lying, mockery, derision and falsehood; and there are many more faults which can affect a servants tongue, ruining his heart and causing him to lose both his happiness and pleasure in this life, and his success and profit in the next life. Allah is the One to Whom we turn for assistance. Unrestrained Glances The unrestrained glance results in the one who looks becoming attracted to what he sees, and in the imprinting of an image of what he sees in his heart. This can result in several kinds of corruption in the servant. The following are a number of them::: It has been related that the Prophet (صلّى اللّـه عليه و سلّم) once said words to the effect: The glance is a poisoned arrow of Satan. Whoever lowers his gaze for Allah, He will bestow upon him a refreshing sweetness which he will find in his heart on the day that he meets Him.14 Satan enters with the glance, for he travels with it, faster than the wind blowing through an empty place. He makes what is seen appear more beautiful than it really is, and transforms it into an idol for the heart to worship. Then he promises it false rewards, lights the fire of desires within it, and fuels it with the wood of forbidden actions, which the servant would not have committed had it not been for this distorted image. This distracts the heart and makes it forget its more important concerns. It stands between it and them; and so the heart loses its straight path and falls into the pit of desire and ignorance. Allah, Mighty and Glorious is He, says: And do not obey anyone whose heart We have made forgetful in remembering Us- who follows his own desires, and whose affair has exceeded all bounds. (18:28) The unrestrained gaze causes all three afflictions. It has been said that between the eye and the heart is an immediate connection; if the eyes are corrupted, then the heart follows. It becomes like a rubbish heap where all the dirt and filth and rottenness collect, and so there is no room for love for Allah, relating all matters to Him, awareness of being in His presence, and feeling joy at His proximity-only the opposite of these things can inhabit such a heart. Staring and gazing without restraint is disobedience to Allah: Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that is more purifying for them. Surely Allah is aware of what they do. (24:30) Only the one who obeys Allahs commands is content in this world, and only the servant who obeys Allah will survive in the next world. Furthermore, letting the gaze roam free cloaks the heart with darkness, just as lowering the gaze for Allah clothes it in light. After the above ayah, Allah, the Glorious and Mighty, says in the same surah of the the Quran: Allah is the light of the heavens and the earth: the likeness of His light is as if there were a niche, and in the niche is a lamp, and in the lamp is a glass, and the glass as it were a brilliant star, lit from a blessed tree, an olive, neither of the east nor of the west, whose oil is well nigh luminous, though fire scarce touched it. Light upon light. Allah guides whomever He wants to His Light. Allah strikes metaphors for man; and Allah knows all things.(24:35)
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