The awkward moment when friends with someone who can help you financially or way more than what you can for them in many ways and try doing what some might think isnt good enough besides just being a friend and trying to understand their ways and reasons as you expect them to do same for you... At times tho it seems that they want to have comfort in conversations and be able to not feel awkwardness yet when they have a tone or attitude and you get one back then they get mad for being done or even not as bad as what they do and expect you not to have an opinion or reaction or not supposed to ever do as they do to you maybe they think they control me due to their help is financially greater than mine but wouldnt wanna assume being its done to me also by this friend over the pity things and sometimes triggered by someone just saying this or that not even regarding me at all and all the sudden I am doing this and that and knew this or that and then other people start stuff between my friend and I and lied on both of us and seems since then they either somewhat wanna assume or believe or just act different taking the lies and drama that other Person started and twist off their own assumptions and Its making their attitude toward me different in spurts or even on a roll. Whats sad is if you come back with a tone or reaction of irritation in defending yourself that isnt what they want to hear or feel they deserve for some reason they can just drop you until THEY arent mad and ready to drop it then back they go back normal until being first issues arent fully resolved this is pattern either once a week once a month or twice a week and so on and I literally am too stressed for This drama from the friend quick to call anyone of my other friends doing this to me and if I do anything but cant except constructive criticism or being treated as they treat me return even if getting a tone as they have back with them ... Didnt list no names or if girl or boy for a reason just wanting If I could get any input on if I am handling it right by letting them do it then come back like nothing happened but theyll make smartellic comments here and there and if I get mad then its like they dare me to pop off but I am not to drag anything out after closed subject thats not really closed when not discussed later bout the problem
Posted on: Fri, 09 Jan 2015 16:24:13 +0000
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