The fault is not mine! or ... I did not go! . In general, look for ways to exonerate blame, pointing to others as responsible for those events that have not left us as we wanted. Or, when we have no choice: we say: the fault of everyone ... Could it be that evil of many, consolation of fools ?. A well-known Chinese proverb says: Because of a nail the shoe was dropped. Because of the shoe a horse was lost. Because of a horse did not get the message. Because the message failed, the war was lost. The bitterness and resentment undoubtedly arise when we blame. And guilt is the ideal pretext or excuse, to disguise our inability to take responsibility for our mistakes. The sad thing is that blame has become a culture rooted in the society in which we live. The past is something I lived; but not always experience. If you lived in the past will cause remorse, resentment, fear happens again, is not that experience. The experience is the wisdom that you have managed to extract those events and stop blaming the world for its many falls. If you are constantly wondering Why me ?, is because transits life with feelings of Victim. Rephrase the question. Ask yourself, Why? and become an Apprentice of life. Take responsibility for their actions. Then, both the victim and the apprentice have a question formulated. The question of the Victim, never has answers: Why ... Why me? He is always looking for ways to blame others for their failures and misfortunes. The Apprentice question: Why ?, however, SI has an answer, which is: to learn. Believe victim is not a feeling. It is a BAD ATTITUDE an involutive human behavior, away from any possibility of development. The victim attitude makes people flee their responsibilities and complete washing hands to their mistakes. Are manufacturers of excuses and invented truths (or lies) until manipulation. A person with attitude victim comes even exercising creativity to sustain its weakness. Rest assured that the victim will only receive the moldy crumbs of pity, and believe that it is love and understanding; but in reality, it is the concealment of FEAR that is held. Fear is the opposite of love; is specifically the denial of love and truth. Victims belief is full of acid gnawing consciousness. It makes transit roads wide and thick black gray landscapes and depression, lack of hope, blindness of soul. In this state, you can not distinguish the manifestations of love, because the ego seeks ways to find no-reasons for always being defensive and ready to attack. Victim is a word from the ancient Latin Victus whose connotation or meaning is Expired. In ancient times the word was used in religious vocabulary to designate the slaughtered animals. Another version considers the word victim may have originated from the Latin word Vincta to designate Bound or Tie. I ask: Do you feel defeated by the circumstances of your life? Do you think that failures can more than you? Do you feel your life is painful or sacrificed? Did I feel tied for something? You know that the victim attitude is quite simply mediocrity? A professional psychiatry, Spanish Enrique González Duro says in his book The Paranoia that among the factors that trigger this attitude of victim, are narcissism, the reluctant exposure of individuals to serious frustration and low self-esteem and says the paranoid thinking ignores the reasons contrary, only collects data or signs that confirm prejudice, to become convinced ... and mention this example: I saw a rose and wanted to smell it, but I was afraid of being hurt . I clarify that I am not saying that a person who blames his failures to others, one that has a strong attitude of victim, suffering from paranoia; although a person who assumes the role of victim, have paranoid thoughts. Consider: You are solely responsible for their present and future. Everything you think, feel and do is a seed that, sooner or later, will yield its increase. Accept your mistakes and failures, allows your mind and your heart open to receive the wonderful wisdom that lies behind all adversity. Accept failure gives you power because when receiving knowledge of these adverse events blessed, acquires boot. It is well-known phrase knowledge is power; as well ... accept failure as a wonderful time of learning. I assure you there are two things that you win when you accept failures: The first is that you open your heart to the dimensions of humility. Accept a failure, is humble hearts and in this way there will be succeeded to his wounded ego, which does not support be beat. The second important thing that you earn accepting failure is that, in addition to knowledge and humility, life will reward you with the ability to be powerfully more creative, more resourceful; and remain so, will the most precious tools to solve problems. The things we have not solved, are essentially those who first have censored; ie, we have self-imposed barriers giants so we extralimitamos to resolve situations in life. All this happens due to little or no commitment to our inner observation. Develop your genius, ie let flow into you that wonderful inner genius that owns, is restless and wants to create new things, coherent solutions, which provides answers to make smart decisions and evolutionary. Develop the genius in you. That Aladdins lamp, which when rubbed the genie appears, is the alignment of your heart with harmony and your conscious mind focused on what you really want for your life. And for that genius appears, you need to let flow its essence. Humility is one of the greatest treasures possessing, as leader, and allow you to get away from failure. In other words: Humility is one of the secrets by which the victory is achieved and what remains. I invite you to consider the failures and adversity have a divine purpose. God gives us the grace of success and triumph in our lives when we have a humble heart.. Just be happy in your life and think that there are more opportunities in life for a person to be happy.;-) :-) :-*
Posted on: Tue, 02 Dec 2014 15:02:56 +0000
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