The most recent personal journey I have experienced is one that I understand the least... I was told by a good friend that I should consider reevaluating who I tell I love. This is a concept I cant understand. I am open with my heart and I genuinely feel the compassion and energy I express. and many of you recognize the sincerity in that part of who i am. and you embrace it about me. But because I told a good friend, a therapist, and a spiritual guide that I love him over the years, and despite the honest connection and pure movements we shared, it almost ruined his marriage. I just dont see the point in repressing what should actually be expressed and embraced more. It is hurting me so deeply to be a part of a situation that implies that these perspectives are based collectively on fear and mistrust. Since when does society dictate or try to force limitations and reservations on the way in which I express my love I refuse to allow other peoples insecurities and fears determine when and who I can express my energy and emotions. There is NOTHING wrong with telling someone you love them. Honestly and genuinely. Everyone’s perspective of love is different so how can you reserve that emotion so strictly and tell others what is appropriate and what is not? you cant. its personal! its intimate and directly associated to that person, or those people involved.. not the masses. you cant judge or imply such an objective association with that feeling or phrase. I have lost a friend of 8 years because I innocently and honestly express to him I love him. and i do. just like everyones interpretation of God is different, everyones interpretation of love is different... and arent they one in the same anyway??? stop fearing love people. its not helping anything.
Posted on: Sun, 09 Nov 2014 20:08:08 +0000
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