The woman clings too much because she is afraid about insecurity, about safety, about finance, about this and that. She is so much afraid. She has been made afraid! That is the trick of the man, to make the woman afraid. When the woman is afraid she can be easily dominated. You cannot dominate somebody who is not afraid. So create fear! First man creates fear in women about their virginity -- he creates great fear that virginity is something very valuable. Down the centuries he has created that fear, so every girl is afraid: if she loses her virginity, all is lost. Through that fear she cannot relate to people, she cannot make friendships, she cannot move in freedom. She cannot have a few experiences before she decides whom to choose. The fear... she has to be virgin. Look at the distinction: they have not told the boys that you have to be virgin -- they say boys are boys. And girls are not girls? Girls are girls too! Why are boys boys? Virginity is not asked from the boys. They are given freedom. Through virginity, a great conditioning. And once a woman becomes too much afraid of losing her virginity -- think: up to the twentieth year of age, twenty years she has been protecting her virginity, twenty years of conditioning -- she will become frigid. Then she will never enjoy! Then she will never be able to flow in love; she will never have any orgasm. Down the centuries, millions of women have not had any orgasm they dont know what orgasm is. They simply suffer. They are simply means for the man. This a great degradation. OshO 🍁 The Tantra Vision, Vol 1 Chapter #10
Posted on: Sat, 02 Aug 2014 03:07:28 +0000
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