There are 3 things that can NOT be taken back once done: 1. the arrow that leaves the bow. 2. death once visited upon life. 3. the harsh word once said. Hadhrat ALI (peace be upon him) (fourth Caliph of Islam). Because Ali (r.a)did not want his grave to be desecrated by his enemies,he asked his friends and family members to bury him secretly. This secret gravesite is supposed to have been revealed later during the Abbasid caliphate by Jafar al-Sadiq, the sixth Shia Imam. Most Shias accept that Ali was buried at the Tomb of Imam Ali in the Imam Ali Mosque at what is now the city of Najaf, which grew around the mosque and shrine called Masjid Ali. However another story, usually maintained by Afghans, notes that his body was taken and buried in the Afghan city of Mazari Sharif at the famous Blue Mosque or Rawze-e-Sharif. I have shared this quote above with you because I was asked (out of curiosity) what was the deciding factor that ended my second marriage, it was words carelessly and immaturely stated by me to a young man aged 20 years old. We live. We learn. We suffer. We lose. We grow from taking responsibility and become better human beings. But we destroy what we cherish in the process in order to evolve. Words can win hearts over and also destroy them. Please friends, CHOOSE your words carefully in any situation of conflict. RIDWAN HASSIM CREATING MAGIC.
Posted on: Fri, 18 Oct 2013 01:19:40 +0000
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