This is a post about my Ex-Fiance Natalie Davila: Im going to air something out with you Facebook. I have been having strong feelings of dislike as it pertains to one individual. All I can think about doing is some sort of retaliation against this person, but then I realize that her life as it is currently is retaliation enough. That hasnt stopped me from wanting to make it worse. The only thing stopping me is the fact that she has three kids that she already cannot afford and anything that I do to take the remainder of the possessions that she currently has would not benefit me and would only take away the small wages she currently makes from her children (not that she spends it on them anyway). There is nothing that I would do to her physically as I have no intentions of harming her. I would just like to make her life more difficult than it already is. Id like to believe that I am a good person (besides this posts). She is far from that and Im tired of being the good guy while she runs around speaking badly of me. What has driven me to this is not the money she owes me for the two months I allowed her to be on my car insurance in order for her to purchase her first car ($315). Its not the two months that she refused to pay her half of the cell phone bill ($160). Thats small money and not important to me. This is also not about the TVs, bed, cell phone, and ring (totaling over $5000) that I left in her apartment in order to get out of the relationship. If someone is willing to do that, that has to tell you something about how this relationship and/or person had to be like (it was hell). This is about my jacket. My U.S. Military Black Fleece that I could purchase new for $28.95 on EBay. This past Thursday, out of the kindness of my heart and the fact that I truly do love her kids, I baby sat for her while she worked a double shift and her girlfriend went to a funeral. A couple days later I realized my jacket was missing and I knew for a fact that it was there. The thing is, she hasnt contacted me about any of my stuff being there and its been 5 months since the break up. Anything that Ive found that was hers Ive returned months ago. Why would she still be holding onto my things? After I texted her about it, even more so after I baby sat her children she blew up and told me never to contact her again. Why would someone who you helped and continue to help treat you this way? Her friends may think of me as a bad guy without the realization that their friend is a bad person. Its an unfortunate situation when a mother of three cares to spend more time chasing men (and now women) than she does to spend time with her kids. It is even more upsetting when you have to feed a 13 month old baby old macaroni and cheese as her only source of food. Ive been struggling with this for the last 4 days. I asked if the conditions were any better with their father, only to find out its not much better there either. A little over a week ago she held a halloween party at her place. While I was there the decorations were still up but there was no food in the fridge. Only opened and mostly drunk 40oz in the fridge and mixed drinks all over the apartment. Her 9 year old son being the intelligent young man that he is explained to me that they are in this situation because of their mother. Her bad attitude and the way she treats people caused their last baby sitter to quit and they go shopping for clothes more than they do for food. I know what she is going to say when she reads this. He threatened to beat me! I cant deny that as truth. After being hit and provoked that day numerous times while driving... I did threaten her. Probably the darkest moment in my life as I grew up in a situation where my mother was abused when I was a helpless child. I immediately regretted it after saying it, but I did it to protect myself and the child in the car. After dropping her off I removed myself from the situation and stayed the night elsewhere. That night she begged me to come home and I made the decision that it was time to go our separate ways. Because if she could push me far enough to say it, it would have only been a matter of time before I actually did it. This has been a year of trouble and stress that she has put me through and that I also have to say I have allowed. It has been far more than I could have asked for, the last straw being her refusal (aka stealing) to give me my military fleece jacket back. Up to this point, she has been the only one talking on my behalf so I figured Id share today and get some of these things out of my heart and most importantly out of my head since a few of her friends are still connected to me through Facebook. Doing anything more than putting together a lengthy Facebook post would have been out of character for me and would not be beneficial to anyone in this situation, most importantly anything I do would have inadvertently hurt her kids. Their mother does that enough, I want no part in that. There is only so much praying, wishing, hoping, meditation and wisdom that you can drop on a person before realizing that they need help. Im letting you all know now Natalie Davila needs help. Not monetarily, not physically, but mentally. This post initially started with anger and a malicious intent to air out everything she hasnt been saying. But now Ive realized she just needs people she knows to let her know that they care and to get her the help that she needs. Stop turning a blind eye to her bad attitude, parenting, and handling of money. Do it for the kids...
Posted on: Sun, 10 Nov 2013 18:42:11 +0000
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