This is the world of should haves, could haves and why me? Someone who views life in this way will invariably have a strong attachment to outcomes. On the other hand, if you subscribe to the view that everything is unfolding perfectly according to a flawless Divine plan, surrender and non-attachment are not so difficult to achieve. Instead of asking why me? when the shit hits the fan, every event can be viewed as our own perfect creation to learn and grow. You may ask What is the gift in this situation for me? or If that didnt work out, there must be an even better situation just around the corner. When we put all of our eggs in one basket, as far as our happiness goes, whether it be a special relationship or getting a job promotion, we are setting ourselves up for suffering. When you enjoy the smell of a thousand flowers, you will not miss the absence of one, - Anthony de Mello
Posted on: Tue, 05 Nov 2013 06:45:28 +0000