This was an excellent article on why marriages make it or dont make it. I especially liked this part: There are two ways to think about kindness. You can think about it as a fixed trait: either you have it or you don’t. Or you could think of kindness as a muscle. In some people, that muscle is naturally stronger than in others, but it can grow stronger in everyone with exercise. Masters tend to think about kindness as a muscle. They know that they have to exercise it to keep it in shape. They know, in other words, that a good relationship requires sustained hard work. theatlantic/health/archive/2014/06/happily-ever-after/372573/
Posted on: Tue, 17 Jun 2014 14:14:15 +0000