Tips on marriage-please read even if youve been married for a long time. [From an unmarried persons point of view] •Always listen, even if he/she said it 100 times •Never play the blaming game •admit your wrong and always apologize(even if you arent wrong) •Appreciate your spouse and SHOW your appreciation(say thank you/gift) •Never complain or give your days doings as soon as they arrive from work. This can cause a lot of tension as well as frustration. And also causes unnecessary conflict and arguments •If your spouse angers you in a certain way try your best to remain calm and use the calmest tone so you do not sound annoying to them. Try not to get too emotional for small matters. •If your spouse is the one working out all day then when they arrive home give them a good welcome so they feel like coming home instead of dreading it. •if your spouse is a home executive then be grateful and thankful for what they do for you.. Show them your gratefulness etc. •try your best to ignore petty arguments and never create an argument. It is sometimes better to be silent. • Dont forget to BE ROMANTIC. Many couples feel that as years go by theres no need for this. If this was the case why is marriage supposed to be for a lifetime? •No matter how long youre married carry on dressing up and taking care of yourself for your spouse.. • Try to be understanding and be a good listener. Give compliments and mean it when you say I love you. •if you feel unhappy or un well, tell your partner. Dont expect them to just guess your feelings. • Never quit making dua for your marriage. Try your best to make your marriage successful. •dont ever feel like youre the only one trying. If you wish to confront your spouse about any important matter that may cause an argument,think about it carefully and try to approach the matter in the most careful way possible. Remember you and your spouse are on the same side.. May Allah make it easy for all married couples,grant them everlasting love ,happiness and understanding.. Aameen
Posted on: Thu, 28 Aug 2014 16:36:15 +0000