To My Brother In Law Bubba, Tim. Im sorry Im late a couple days telling you. But just know one thing, Your the best brother in law Ive ever had. Ive had Brother In Law with plenty of money that lose sight of what true family and friends are. I cant say that about you because Ive seen you take in every stray dog-dawg, pig, cow , horse and raccoon Not counting the rest.. You are the easiest going fella I know until someone messes with yours. Youre a Golden Glove Boxer and Graduate of Hazel Green and Ive watch you stand beside my Sister and bury all our Parents and Ive watched her stand beside you and Bury yours. I watched you both bury My Son and your Sisters Son, your nephews out of the goodness of your hearts. I watched you care for your relatives and others not even kin to you by feeding them and mostly talking and listening as well as praying for a better day. If Mama could have wished for someone for my Sister, I have no doubt God had his hand in that. It has now been well over 20+ years. Somehow youve maintained that hometead of hers as best as you can and still provide for your family and run a 1957 year old business. And having Aspergers and Autism child with 4 more teenagers all in sports. I concluded your Superman. but, I know as Humble as you are that its just apart of your being and you wouldnt have it any other way. It used to tickle me when Id come home to visit from Mississippi and youd load up the van and count 1-2-3-4--5-6 all the kids loading up... And... Hot Shot going to let Dustin drive your Van and came back back with eyeballs as big as silver dollars and said Gina, He light to took out every mail box on the road... I said well, let Desi drive, she about totaled my Cadillac in reverse never looking in rear view mirror... I guess times has changed since our parents turned us a loose in the back 40.. And when we wanted to go somewhere, wed sit in Junk cars and imagine going all over USA. I know its not been easy out there with no help, and all the people that piled up at Mamas, eat, slept and took full advantage pf her hospitality or no where to be found or have motive or agendas to be around. You are free hearted and well,, Promise will stomp anybodies ass that messes with her family, as shes never left the old homestead her whole life. People dont understand yall did it on your own, and have kept every single thing that belonged to our deceased Parents and relatives because you dont have the heart to throw it away. You and Promise have a symbolic heart. When Dustin died, I called you as first Family and you were on a ball field practicing up in Lincoln County with one of the kids. Scotts brother came out there briefly and treated me as an object as he does now, like Im unimportant and not worthy enough to be in his presence. He is out in Denver seeing my child now. It hurts me down to my core being that I have been so bullied against and rejected when I opened my home to his daughter and shared all my worldly goods, and more so, Dustin and Alex shared their Mom. Everyone in that neighborhood out in Mississippi knows. The way you stood guard over Dustins home, Services and our Family out in Colorado, keeping extra surveillance on Scott knowing he was wearing Dustins Rolex, taking his computers and a good chance his credit cards. Talking to his now live in Girlfriend that was married at the time in which she left her two beautiful daughter and her little Son Dustin to move in a Mother my Sn with Scott after I came home to yall for yall to take the time to allow me to heal and grieve in Honor of Dustin. When a tragic death happens, you really dont look for people stealing or taking advantage of a Mother and her baby Son. So, you taught me a lesson. Your Motto was let it go... Its only stuff, Gina... Surrender it to God.. When yall left Westminster, Co. I knew I couldnt go through this journey alone. Dustin was my best friend not only my Protector and Son. It had only been less that 24 months wed lost his Grandfather,, My daddy. I watched the tears roll down my Sons face as he cried with me although, he wasnt one to cry, but he love his Grandfather. It hurt us so bad that people we once trusted, and that my Mama thought we could count on wasnt there. Just the Daytona Police -Morgan County Sheriffs. It hurt myself but most of all it hurt my Son that the one person he thought of as a Grandparent couldnt even pick up phone and all person, acknowledge him, think of him. Give us time to get to Alabama to pay my Daddy Respects, There comes times in your life when your will is challenged, moral, values. This was one of those times and a time I had no answer to explain to my Son Dustin. We chose to Remember Daddies life.. all Dustin school pictures, Daddies Harley Davidson Collections, Cowboy Hats, Guitars and the little things is what mean most. I dont know hoe to explain the deception of his checkbook, automobiles, Service Station businesses and Wimpys Mobile Home and towing memorabilia, stuff he welded his kids ,land and all the law is in place t protect you. regulate these sort of things. Daddy and mama taught me to fight and to pick my battles well, This one is For God. Im perplexed because this has broken my heart deeply and compiled with with other traumas, Im at a loss, because I teach in my training to REACH OUT.... I dont like to think all the years Ive put into my passion of helping vulnerable has been swept under the rug once again. My Family Brother In Law and Sister suggested I get myself back on the east coast so they could look out for me know Id had to get Lakewood Police Department, Wheat Ridge Police Department and Jefferson County Sheriffs Office Sheriffs Department involved for my safety out in Denver after my Son Dustin Died. My Brother In Law fixed up a little house that was Mr. & Mrs. Rithmires, It had well water but I got County water put in and even though my Brother In Law had a list of thing to do he dug that trench for me for water. I Lived there 5 years to date I finally got independent enought to get my own little apartment. I save ever dime I make for yearbooks, school pictures, and so forth and $500. for round trip tickets for my Son to see me. It Hurts when his Dad wont follow orders, As Im obligated to regardless. Its hard to make reservations for vacation or even fishing when we dont know. I just really home Ill stop being used as a proverbial whipping post due to bitterness and for the love og God dont put our child through that or anyone elses. Happy 48th Birthday Mr. Johnson. I have huge admiration for you and you are the head of this Family. Thanks for being there and treating me like a Sister and Thanks for Loving My Sister. Thanks for Sharing your children with me when I felt emptiness. Most of all Thank you for Praying with me. When I found that cross the other day, I had to get it for your birthday, Carry it everywhere, Brother. Abby Johnson Contessa Funsize Johnson Makayla Johnson Jesse Johnson Chance Johnson Johnson Home Maintenance Promise & James Johnson
Posted on: Wed, 12 Mar 2014 14:14:01 +0000
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