To heal the hurt, you have to dissect every part of it, figure out the reason it hurt you so badly, and then realize the person who hurt you didnt do it AGAINST you - they did it because they had their own demons before you even came into the picture and it wasnt completely dealt with, so those demons came back and now it affects you. Dont cast blame. My best friend reminded me that sin is sin in Gods eyes. Their sin is not greater than your sins. So true, but so hard to grasp. Especially since serious sins hurt your spouse more than a small, quiet sin. So, why do some sins hurt us more than others? Because we make it about us. Why would they do this to me? I thought they loved me. Why would they purposely hurt me if they knew the consequences? Dont they know what this would do to me? You need to look at it like Jesus does , as difficult as it is. This was their demon before me, and it is still a stronghold for whatever reason. look at them with empathy and realize that if your sins can be forgiven-so can theirs-because sin is sin. Do whatever steps necessary to prevent it from happening again. 1. Protect your heart, but not from potential hurt in the future because you WILL have hurt in the future - but protect it from evil, temptations, and distractions that may entice sin to creep in. 2. Protect your home - because even if were working moms, it is still our responsibility to make our home welcoming, peaceful, loving, and forgiving for our family to feel the love of God and make it that much more of an armor against Satan. I dont know who that was for, but I felt led to post it;)
Posted on: Wed, 29 Oct 2014 17:53:34 +0000
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