To this poster Gud pm,plead to have my id hidden...my bf had a baby with his ex who they left eachoda afta many visions that they r not compatible,,he proposed to me nd weve prayed abt it which they told us we re gud to go...my prob nw is dat am afraid of him using the responsibility of his baby to be affecting mine in the future..advice pls,tnx ++++++++++++++++ Nothing gets me angry more than a woman that knowingly dates, courts and marries a man with children, and then wants to dictate or change the mans feelings towards his children.... How dare you???! You went to your pastor to see if you can marry a single dad, the pastor tells you its good to go if you marry the man,.......lols, but you and your pastor never talked or prayed about the child? Where do you and your pastor want the child to go? When you marry a man with a child, you have to put aside all these selfish spirit, you must remember that he is a package deal, he came along with issues, you are suppose to welcome the child with open arms, you are the one thats coming into his world, the child is not coming into yours, take him as you would want another woman to take yours, treat him well, as your child, not as a visitor in your home........truth is wether he lives with you or with his mom, that is his home, he will be the big brother to your children, their blood, they will share the same DNA,.... My point, the ball is in your court, how you take and treat that child will determine how much you love your hubby, because you cannot love someone when you detest their offspring........if you dont want him around, Do Not Marry His Father..... The child was there first, he will be there when you leave, so learn to accommodate and love him, in his fathers home.... Regardless of how his mother is, you are married to his father, treat him right and he will make up his own mind about you even if his mom hates you.... Women needs to understand that when you marry a single dad........You are not losing anything, you are gaining the unconditional love of a child.........its an extra blessing..... Just dont marry a single dad and want to change or rule what theyve built, add to it, make it better, or keep moving..... Fola...
Posted on: Sat, 16 Aug 2014 22:41:56 +0000
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