Topic: Detach in peace and love and Let Go. Do you have people or friends in your life that hurt you? Do they say things to hurt you and talk about you behind your back? Well, then they are not a true friend. Dont let what they say bring you down. It is not about you, its about them. Dont take it to heart. You are not alone. We will tell you why. There are those unfortunates who truly have wicked ways about them they like to slander, gossip, back stab, lie and take pleasure in creating strife in other peoples lives. They are spiteful and full of envy. They have a dark heart that is full of hatred and pride.They can also be deceiving and pretend to be care about you, and or be your friend all the while talking about you behind your back. They are vindictive and spiteful, and scheme up ways about how they can get even with you and betray your trust. They always think they are right, and they never apologize for anything, because they never think they are wrong.They do not have the capacity to truly empathize with others feelings. They will use others vulnerabilities and kindness as a form of weakness and they despise weakness, because that is how they see themselves. People such as this always seem to band together, because water seeks its own level. It is very sad, but true. These are most likely characteristics of a person who has narcissistic personality disorder. The reason such people do these things or act in these ways is, because they are full of self hatred and self loathing and so this is what they do to build themselves up they use people. This is how they build their false sense of self-esteem. It is very important to set boundaries with this type of person and sometimes you need to just let them go completely. It is very difficult to have relationships with them especially if they do not have a program or are seeking counseling. We can pray that they get the help they need. In the mean time you can disengage and take care of your self. You dont even need to explain this to them, because they will turn it back on you. They will never own it. In fact the first thing they would do if they read these things that described them they would quickly apply it to someone they know. Sad. Lord, Jesus we pray for these people at a healthy distance. We release them and forgive them for they know not what they do. May they come to really know you so they can be restored. God Bless and have a peaceful day. PS: If and when you should see them or think of them just picture them in your head; just imagine they are in a hospital night gown behind a closed door with a small window drooling with fangs and horns on their head holding a pitch fork and go the other way swiftly... Lol.
Posted on: Wed, 22 Oct 2014 15:38:24 +0000
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