Uyahlanya!? Uyagula!? Udakiwe!? Cha...akunjalo...none of the above...othi ngimphendulele coz wena usumbiza ngo Hlanyo! One or more of the following could have lead to you confusing her emotions and frustrations with insanity. 1. Wamtshele ukuthi u have never met a beautiful, intellegent and hard working woman in your life...u maybe even asked her Where have u been all my life?.....She believed u and thought ud continue giving her positive status updates on how she is The Every woman that Whitney Houston sang about but instead u kept telling her how unsatisfied u are with her and showed her how useless she is in ur life...She still was doing the same things u had said once made u feel good. 2. Maybe ud call her morning, noon and night like amapilisi kaDokotela...Bengithi ngikuChecker njeMammaz wami...uyaphila kodwa Sweetness?...Ud feel over the moon and happy for her just picking up the phone and saying hallo......Now she calls nakawuTEN and all those calls are missed calls...u dont pick up...u dont call her...u dont return her texts...and yes you Are online but not with her. 3. Maybe you liked all her pics on FB and commented and she did the same. Now you either call her when she comments and ask Yini lodoti owubhale kuFB wami? or u delete and block her from ur fb OR she sees you liking the other girls pics and even flirting with the other girl saying things like Mangase ngizitholele wena nje Baby!....Did u forget that ur girlfriend is also ur friend on facebook? 4. Mhlampe uSisters uzodlula kini njenge Njwayelo...no stress and then oSkwiza noSbari bavukwe amalimi bonke about ur whereabouts....thats before she sees u elumini lakho nenye ingane efane nse noBeyonce!! And before she can ask What Zisha?...wena Sweerat wakhe umkhomba indlela umbuze ukuthi Ufunani lana?!....uzokwenzani?!....and then suddenly ukhiswa njengenja...ulandelwa u Tsek! in your ears. 6. Mhlampe u have fasted and prayed with her and shared bible scriptures and inspirational messages naye...You have understood her dreams and she was even convinced u r best friends and brothers all at the same time. You were protective over her. Telling her how wrong every other guy she liked was for her. You even disciplined izesheli zakhe...Then without letting her know, she hears ngoNdabaZabantu that wena ubulobola ngeWeekend or worse....ubuhambise uMbondo....eeewu?? U never even told her u like any Girl..and every night u reminded her how beautiful and lived she is..and now wacela and did all this in the presence of a friendship she was now seeing as a pure and holy marriage?! Kanjani? 7. Maybe she is now HIV/Positive and the only person she had a skoon with uwena...and wena wamdaxaza when she told u of her status. 8. Maybe usekhulelwe. Her family bamthuka ngayonke inhlamba ekhone. ECollege wayekiswa or worse emsebenzini bamumisa and wena, usuthi akuyona ingane yakhe or umthumela eMarie Stopes ukuthi akokhipha isisu...awumphelezeli. Awumnike senti...uthi nje Ey Mfethu...uwena owenze ifambu ngalokumitha kwakho...usungifaka egowustini manje? ....Kanti where u a ghost when u slept with her? njoba usubona izipoki zamaGhost emini kaBha manje? I could go on...but I will it leave it here for now. She is not mad. She is not Mentally ill. She is not Sick Upstairs. Akubona oPopeye abadansayo ekhanda lakhe. She is what would be termed A creation of the state!...You The Government in her life...came and introduced her to sweet and new words and ways that she had only dreamt off or seen on TV and u made them a reality and without a word of warning dumped her!! Ubani ke uHlanyo Lapho. DISCLAIMER: I do not promote ladies showing any signs of madness...All I am saying is that bitterness and resentment and pain is just not created out of the blue...Take responsibilty for ur words and actions.
Posted on: Sat, 24 Jan 2015 07:45:13 +0000
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