WILLINGNESS AND COMMITMENT.two keys to a lasting relationship NB*there are countless lists describing the ideal mate.this lesson on our jambezi talk page narrows them down to two.you and your other significant possess them,everything else will fall uinto place.if not start incorporating them for a long lasting relationship LOVE WHEN YOU REALLY DONT EVEN FEEL LIKE IT,ITS NOT ABOUT YOUR MOOD,ITS ABOUT THE COMMITMENT TO LOVE [1]Willingness Thats really *lets begin with willingness Is having that wish to talk or say out your view in encouraging way showing that even if it might not b easy but l am willing to move forward. *if you possess this quality you are able to #listen,actively and curiosly #self-reflect on what you are doing to help or hinder your relationship #apologise #try new things and be open to a new ideas #understand that relationship require work and to do wat it takes COMMITMENT What have you ever had truly commit to ?we practice commitment when we take a new job,began a new project or decide to train for a mmarathon,l still remember when l used to train abantwana beMashake they used to show their commitment by the time we go for training and those who would finish training as a sign of commitment,they did very well the likes of Thembelenkosini hamoyo etc. *but nothing truly prepares us for the level of commitment we undertake when entering into relationship *this is when we get to find out what we are made of.l love rollercoaster.there is such a thrill as the coaster is climbing the hill and you are excitedly anticipating what to come.however,once that coaster gets going thats it,you are commited. *you are thrown down the hill,tossed around the loop,jerkrd sideways and everywhich way untill the ride ends *and for the most part of the rideis thrilling and exhilarating Commitment in a relationship is similar but different in that this roller coaster lasts your whole life.its up , down and sideways sometimes it makes you sick while other times its absolutely thrillingg the point is to understand that,come what may ,you are not getting off,you are riding side by side with your spouse and riding it to end.Arent you glad there is someone with whom to share it if youre going to vomit,it might as well be u or someone who signed up for this ride with you A commited person has the ability to #stand their ground,even when its difficult especially when its difficult #determinedly place one foot in front of the other #realizethisfight,misunderstanding,stressor can be worked with and doesnt mean the relationship is over #enter into a relationship without thinking that the first three years are just a test run to see if they ll like it or not #Be emotionally mature. GOODDAY
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