We all have times when we are disappointed in relationships, and we all have times when we disappoint others, too. Whenever someone disappoints you or does not meet your expectations, you have a choice to either dwell on those disappointments or overlook them. However, if you really want to succeed in your relationships, there is a third choice. Instead of focusing on that persons shortcomings, immediately find something about them that exceeds your expectations. Most of the time, you will find dozens of good qualities in that person and only a few things that irritate you. When those irritations come up, remind yourself of all the good things and focus on the benefits of being in a healthy relationship. Remember, what you focus on will be magnified. When you focus on the good, you magnify the good and set the tone for healthy, loving connections in your relationships! Love…keeps no record of wrongs. (1 Corinthians 13:4-5)
Posted on: Sat, 11 Oct 2014 07:42:26 +0000