We always seem to want those things we dont have. Moreover, we are often convinced that if we had those things we want so badly, we would finally be happy. Singles who want to be in a relationship often believe once they are in one they will finally be happy. Those in shaky relationships hope their relationship will work out, because having worked it out will finally make them happy. I will be happy when I am in love. I will be happy when he/she does really loves me. I will be happy when I know he or she is committed to me. I will be happy when my husband/wife is more considerate. Sound familiar? The truth is that happiness is an attitude. Its not something created by outside circumstances, but instead is completely within your control. This means that you can be happy regardless of whether you are in a relationship or not. You can be happy regardless of whether your relationship is working out or not. If fact, if you cultivate happiness, your relationship will improve. You will not get that deep sense of satisfaction and happiness you crave just by getting or improving a relationship. Nothing will give you that sense of happiness, unless you cultivate it consciously.
Posted on: Wed, 16 Apr 2014 21:44:40 +0000
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