We cannot get to those things, loves, jobs and places we really deserve unless we let go of the things we are still holding onto which no longer serve us. Letting go is extremely difficult, especially when we hold onto false hope that some place, person or circumstance we are dealing with will somehow get better. We can have that hope for a certain amount of time, but with enough time and no changes to a negative or unhealthy situation, if we choose to stay we not only block the life we really deserve but we remain hurt, let down, unhealthy and working hard to make the unworkable change. Accept what is, even if it isnt the way you want it to be. If you stay in denial you will work yourself to death doing emotional acrobatics that no matter how magnificent they are, will not change your circumstance. An unchanging circumstance doesnt reflect to you a lack of personal value. It is reflecting to you that it is time for you to increase your idea of your value, to let go and move INTO the new people, events and circumstances waiting to bring you joy. It is hard to let go when youve worked so hard to make something work, but your work is not wasted. It is still your work, you have skills developed that can benefit you as you let go and move on, and you can see where you overworked and where you would need to back off in the future so you can create and sustain mutually beneficial loves and circumstances. If you truly value yourself, you will not stay where you are not valued and appreciated. You will love yourself enough to be very very brave and let go. Love yourself. Youre worth it!
Posted on: Tue, 19 Aug 2014 13:38:44 +0000
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