Weve become so addicted to the idea of fighting for our relationships, that weve lost sight of what that truly means. Real women dont have to throw hissy-fits, cry night after night, or toss around empty ultimatums to keep a real man. When we waste time fighting for men that cant or dont desire the same things that we do, we become weak. If you have no self-respect, are willing to settle, are willing to wait for his games to stop, and choose to accept less than whats deserving, and remain unwilling to leave or move on youre who Im talking to. Stop reading the memes that have you thinking silly shit, quit screen-shotn the quotes that are being taken out of context, and try to understand what the #Hashtags at the end of the messages youre reading really mean. Stop attempting to make men love you who never will. #ItllDestroyYou #TrustMe Stay away from men that do everything BUT love you, and bring nothing more to the table than a hard dick, a lot of confusion, and a whole bag of priorities that dont include you. Relationships arent that hard when youre with a man whos all about you; a man whos READY to be with you. Stop choosing the man who makes promises that even you know he wont keep. Stop falling in love with the man that cheats, then justifies it by blaming you. Stop fronting for the camera, pretending to be in love just so you look happy on Instagram. Ladies, seriously; what criteria do you have for keeping his bogus ass around? Explain it to me. Is he fine, girl? I know hes fine. :) #SMH #ThatsNotEnough Does he treat you better than the rest of his dolls? #Gasp Maybe yall just cant stay broken up? #NowIGetIt Being his go-to makes you feel irresistible, right? How many times have you taken him back now? 4 times? 7? 12? Or is it that youre like no one else and hes just not able to let you go, even when hes in another relationship? #SheAintYou #S #W #V #GirlBye This pot were throwing our hearts into is real-life. This isnt a fairy tale, or an R&B song. Romantic comedies do not apply here. #WakeUp and realize that if he aint willing to hold you up, he cant possibly hold you down. #GetAGrip #OrStopComplaining -Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible
Posted on: Fri, 26 Sep 2014 18:18:16 +0000
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