What happened to the times when lingering glances and subtle touches were enough to excite us? When did the spark of passion become intermingled with the mundane, to the point where love becomes drudgery, more boring and predictable than it ever should be? For many of us, this is our reality. We escape into the world of old movies and romance novels hoping to grasp onto the emotion and the drama of relationships that we crave and never experience it for ourselves in our own lives. Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why this is? Why you cant have the relationship that you fantasize about? Many times, its because we feel we dont deserve it, but this is one of the greatest lies we could ever tell ourselves. Every girl deserves her own unique romance. Contrary to what many romance novels will tell you, they wont all take the same form or have the same level of adventure, but the one thing that it should do is enervate you, strengthen you, challenge you to become your highest self. Of course, you dont need to have another person be the spark that lights you fire, but at the same time, you shouldnt subjugate yourself to someone who takes away from that fire. If youre going to have someone, have someone that makes you smile, someone that lifts you up, someone who adores you in your worst, instead of holding onto someone who brings you down. So whether youre currently in a relationship that has slipped into tedium or looking for someone to be with, dont settle. If you loved someone, and they dint keep you, stir up the romance, do something out of the ordinary to make it exciting. If youre single, dont just go for the first guy that comes your way. Become strong on your own, feed your own inner flame and the right person will be attracted to the light, and help ignite the fire. Take someone who looks at you like youre magic. Because not everyone on this land will have the power to take you to a world where you always wanted to be. Your dreams can become reality if you believe in them, but first, you have to believe in yourself, that youre worthy of them. Chances are, they have been around you all the time and you never let them enter you. And believe me, something incredibly wonderful awaits you. That will make all the difference :)
Posted on: Wed, 09 Jul 2014 14:55:34 +0000
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